Hi, I’m Jay—your guide to breaking boundaries and redefining what it means to truly live. At 56, I left behind a 30-year teaching career, a life of routine, and the comfort zone society told me to stay in. I traded it all for an open-ended journey around the globe. What was supposed to be a year-long adventure has turned into nearly a decade of nonstop travel (yes, as of January 2025, it’s 9 years and counting!).

Before this grand adventure, I’d already visited nearly 60 countries, mostly solo. But balancing a teaching career left little time to share my stories. Now, with the gift of time, I’ve transformed monthly newsletters into Living Outside the Boundaries—a space where I share not just my travels but the deeper lessons of life, minimalism, financial freedom, and personal growth.

Why I Started This Journey

Wherever I go, people are always curious:

•How could you afford to quit your job at 56?

•What made you brave enough to leave everything behind?

•Aren’t you afraid of traveling solo, especially as a woman?

Their curiosity inspired this blog. I meet countless kindred spirits who dream of traveling the world or making bold life changes but feel paralyzed by fear, societal expectations, or a lack of direction. I’ve been there—I understand what it feels like to want more but not know how to take the leap.

Breaking Free from Boundaries

Society loves its boundaries. As women, we’re told what we can’t do, what we’re “too old” or “too young” for, or why it’s too risky to pursue our dreams. But here’s the truth: while some boundaries keep us safe, others are illusions built by those who never dared to step outside their comfort zones. Real growth happens when you push past those imaginary lines, even when it feels scary. Trust me—I’ve jumped more than a few boundaries myself!

Why You Should Join Me

This isn’t your typical travel blog—it’s a journal of life lessons, experiences, and adventures. My mission is simple:

•To inspire you to see the world differently.

•To show you what’s possible when you dare to live outside the lines.

•To (hopefully) entertain you with my stories and beautiful photos along the way!

So, pack your virtual suitcase and join me on this journey around the globe. Don’t worry—you don’t have to figure out how to fit 12 months of gear into a carry-on. I’ll handle the travel; you just sit back, read, and let the adventure unfold.

Ready to jump a boundary or two? Let’s go!